Anonymous since perhaps you will know me, but need help. So you seem to be very experienced in the art of sex. As someone who is not, can you help me out. I am a man.. consider me the 40 Year Old Virgin.. only 30 which is just as bad. Not quite a virgin, but hopelessly inexperienced. Starting again is the hardest thing to do this late in the game, especially since I actually like the girl. Feel like I'm stepping up to bat for the yankees, when i've never even played before. School me please.