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A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of “America’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= If you want us women to FEEL something for you, say what’s actually going on in your head. We all think wild shit we don’t say out loud—so when you do, we relate. That relatability sparks connection, laughter, and yep… attraction. Stop filtering yourself. Start being human. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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If you want us women to FEEL something for you, say what’s actually going on in your head.

We all think wild shit we don’t say out loud—so when you do, we relate.

That relatability sparks connection, laughter, and yep… attraction.

Stop filtering yourself. Start being human.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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Say Whatever Is On Your Mind (That's Actually What She Wants)

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= 💡 Ever had a woman tell you, “You’re such a great guy… I just don’t know what I want right now”? Babe, that’s code for: you’re in the “meh” category. I’ve seen it happen to incredible men who think they’re doing everything right—but they’re unknowingly killing attraction. No, it’s not about money or muscles (spoiler: that’s what you value in other men). It’s about 3 major mistakes: ❌ Not leading the dynamic ❌ Hiding how much you want us ❌ Putting us on a pedestal When you make these moves, you force us to take the lead, make the first move, or look down on you. And I promise you—none of that gets you into “I gotta have him” territory. I’ll teach you how to drop the “meh” energy, lead with confidence, show your desire without being creepy, and have women thinking about you long after the conversation ends. Stop waiting for her to decide—start making her want to be caught. 📲 Book your coaching call at jessicajdating.com/book and let’s turn you from maybe to man, I need him. 💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

💡 Ever had a woman tell you, “You’re such a great guy… I just don’t know what I want right now”? Babe, that’s code for: you’re in the “meh” category.

I’ve seen it happen to incredible men who think they’re doing everything right—but they’re unknowingly killing attraction. No, it’s not about money or muscles (spoiler: that’s what you value in other men). It’s about 3 major mistakes:
❌ Not leading the dynamic
❌ Hiding how much you want us
❌ Putting us on a pedestal

When you make these moves, you force us to take the lead, make the first move, or look down on you. And I promise you—none of that gets you into “I gotta have him” territory.

I’ll teach you how to drop the “meh” energy, lead with confidence, show your desire without being creepy, and have women thinking about you long after the conversation ends. Stop waiting for her to decide—start making her want to be caught.

📲 Book your coaching call at jessicajdating.com/book and let’s turn you from maybe to man, I need him.

💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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The 3 Traits That Makes Women See You as a 'Maybe'— Not a Man

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= 🚫 Stop. Don’t you dare tell her how you feel… yet. Look, I’m all about being honest and owning your emotions, but if you blurt out “I love you” in the middle of the honeymoon-hormone-crazy stage, you’re setting yourself up for disaster. That’s not love, babe—that’s biology tricking your brain so the species survives. In business, you don’t sign a contract before reading the fine print. Same goes for dating—don’t lock yourself into words you can’t take back before you truly know her. Your job in the early days? Keep your cool, show her you’re interested through actions, and build curiosity so she wants to invest in you. Trust me, saying it too soon can make you look clingy, needy, or unhinged. And once the hormones fade, you might realize you spoke too soon—and she will NEVER let you forget it. Want to learn how to express yourself in a way that keeps her hooked and respects the natural pace of attraction? Watch my private coaching calls where I guide men through real conversations—mistakes, fixes, and all—at 🔗 jessicajdating.com/recordings 💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

🚫 Stop. Don’t you dare tell her how you feel… yet.

Look, I’m all about being honest and owning your emotions, but if you blurt out “I love you” in the middle of the honeymoon-hormone-crazy stage, you’re setting yourself up for disaster. That’s not love, babe—that’s biology tricking your brain so the species survives.

In business, you don’t sign a contract before reading the fine print. Same goes for dating—don’t lock yourself into words you can’t take back before you truly know her. Your job in the early days? Keep your cool, show her you’re interested through actions, and build curiosity so she wants to invest in you.

Trust me, saying it too soon can make you look clingy, needy, or unhinged. And once the hormones fade, you might realize you spoke too soon—and she will NEVER let you forget it.

Want to learn how to express yourself in a way that keeps her hooked and respects the natural pace of attraction? Watch my private coaching calls where I guide men through real conversations—mistakes, fixes, and all—at 🔗 jessicajdating.com/recordings

💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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What Happens When You Tell Her How You Feel Too Soon

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= You think being a “gentleman” is winning her over? I get it—you were taught to be respectful, chivalrous, and treat her like a queen. But here’s the harsh truth: a lot of the so-called “nice guy” habits you’ve been told to do are actually killing her attraction for you. I’ve seen it over and over with my private coaching clients. They over-validate, agree with everything she says, hide their desire, check in constantly, and put women on a pedestal. Sounds sweet, right? Nope. It actually triggers the exact opposite of what you want. Instead of seeing you as confident and sexy, she sees you as needy, predictable, and not worth chasing. In this video, I’m breaking down the 5 “good guy” habits that secretly turn women off—and what to do instead so you instantly create tension, spark emotional connection, and keep her wanting more. If you’ve ever wondered why women keep “just seeing you as a friend” or why things start hot but fizzle fast, you NEED to watch this before you go on another date. 🎯 Want to see me coach men LIVE on fixing these mistakes in real conversations with women? Grab my private client recordings now → https://www.jessicajdating.com/recordings These aren’t scripted, they’re raw, real, and packed with practical takeaways you can use tonight. Learn from my clients’ mistakes so you stop losing the women you actually want. 💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

You think being a “gentleman” is winning her over?

I get it—you were taught to be respectful, chivalrous, and treat her like a queen. But here’s the harsh truth: a lot of the so-called “nice guy” habits you’ve been told to do are actually killing her attraction for you.

I’ve seen it over and over with my private coaching clients. They over-validate, agree with everything she says, hide their desire, check in constantly, and put women on a pedestal. Sounds sweet, right? Nope. It actually triggers the exact opposite of what you want. Instead of seeing you as confident and sexy, she sees you as needy, predictable, and not worth chasing.

In this video, I’m breaking down the 5 “good guy” habits that secretly turn women off—and what to do instead so you instantly create tension, spark emotional connection, and keep her wanting more.

If you’ve ever wondered why women keep “just seeing you as a friend” or why things start hot but fizzle fast, you NEED to watch this before you go on another date.

🎯 Want to see me coach men LIVE on fixing these mistakes in real conversations with women?

Grab my private client recordings now → https://www.jessicajdating.com/recordings

These aren’t scripted, they’re raw, real, and packed with practical takeaways you can use tonight. Learn from my clients’ mistakes so you stop losing the women you actually want.

💬 Don’t forget to subscribe + hit the 🔔 so you never miss no-BS dating advice for men that actually helps you build connection, confidence, and success with women.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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5 'Nice Guy' Habits That Secretly Turn Women Off

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6 Dates in 2 months 🙂

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client