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A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of “America’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= The Simple Shift That Creates Sexual Attraction (Without Being Creepy) Most men way overcomplicate sexual attraction. You think it’s about waiting forever, buying gifts, playing it safe, or being the “nice guy” who small talks his way into friend zone hell. But the truth is, all it takes is one simple shift to get us wanting you in ways that are undeniable. In this video I break down exactly what that shift is, why small talk kills sexual tension, and how to actually create the kind of connection that makes us women want to move things forward. You’ll see why emotions are contagious, why we want you to want us, and how showing that desire (when the connection is there) makes attraction almost automatic. This isn’t about being creepy or crossing lines—it’s about building real connection and comfort fast, so the chemistry happens naturally. And yes, it can happen within seconds. If you want the step-by-step system that shows you exactly how to go from “friendly chat” to “flirty and unforgettable,” check out my Speak to Spark Arousal program at https://speaktosparkarousal.com Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss another video that shows you how to attract women in a way that feels natural and real. And if you’ve already tried Speak to Spark Arousal, drop your experience in the comments—I read them all. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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The Simple Shift That Creates Sexual Attraction (Without Being Creepy)

Most men way overcomplicate sexual attraction. You think it’s about waiting forever, buying gifts, playing it safe, or being the “nice guy” who small talks his way into friend zone hell. But the truth is, all it takes is one simple shift to get us wanting you in ways that are undeniable.

In this video I break down exactly what that shift is, why small talk kills sexual tension, and how to actually create the kind of connection that makes us women want to move things forward.

You’ll see why emotions are contagious, why we want you to want us, and how showing that desire (when the connection is there) makes attraction almost automatic.

This isn’t about being creepy or crossing lines—it’s about building real connection and comfort fast, so the chemistry happens naturally. And yes, it can happen within seconds.

If you want the step-by-step system that shows you exactly how to go from “friendly chat” to “flirty and unforgettable,” check out my Speak to Spark Arousal program at https://speaktosparkarousal.com

Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss another video that shows you how to attract women in a way that feels natural and real.

And if you’ve already tried Speak to Spark Arousal, drop your experience in the comments—I read them all.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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The Simple Shift That Sparks Sexual Chemistry

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Making a woman laugh is one of the most powerful ways to build attraction. It’s not “friend zone,” it’s actually proof you’re more attractive than you think. Women chase the way you make them feel, and laughter makes us feel connected. The only mistake men make is not moving things forward once she’s laughing with you. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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Making a woman laugh is one of the most powerful ways to build attraction. It’s not “friend zone,” it’s actually proof you’re more attractive than you think.

Women chase the way you make them feel, and laughter makes us feel connected.

The only mistake men make is not moving things forward once she’s laughing with you.


- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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If You Can Get Her To Laugh, You Can Make Her Do Anything

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= How to Make a Woman Think About You Non-Stop Most guys think women only obsess over men with big muscles, money, or a flashy car. But that’s not what actually makes us chase you. The truth is, what gets us thinking about you nonstop is when you create an emotional experience we can’t stop replaying in our heads. In this video I’m breaking down exactly how to do that without being needy, cheesy, or over the top. You’ll see why emotions — not gifts, constant texting, or trying to prove yourself — are what actually make you unforgettable. I’ll also explain how giving her space to think and feel amplifies the effect and makes her want you even more. If you’ve ever wondered why some guys become the man she can’t stop thinking about while others fade into the background, this is the key. Watch through and then check out my Speak to Spark Arousal program at https://speaktosparkarousal.com to learn the full step-by-step system. Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss another video that shows you how to attract women in a way that’s natural and real. And if you’ve already tried Speak to Spark Arousal, drop your experience in the comments—I read every single one. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

How to Make a Woman Think About You Non-Stop

Most guys think women only obsess over men with big muscles, money, or a flashy car. But that’s not what actually makes us chase you. The truth is, what gets us thinking about you nonstop is when you create an emotional experience we can’t stop replaying in our heads.

In this video I’m breaking down exactly how to do that without being needy, cheesy, or over the top. You’ll see why emotions — not gifts, constant texting, or trying to prove yourself — are what actually make you unforgettable. I’ll also explain how giving her space to think and feel amplifies the effect and makes her want you even more.

If you’ve ever wondered why some guys become the man she can’t stop thinking about while others fade into the background, this is the key.

Watch through and then check out my Speak to Spark Arousal program at https://speaktosparkarousal.com to learn the full step-by-step system.

Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss another video that shows you how to attract women in a way that’s natural and real.

And if you’ve already tried Speak to Spark Arousal, drop your experience in the comments—I read every single one.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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How To Make Any Interaction Feel Charged With Chemistry

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= If women keep starting conversations with you, that’s a huge sign of attraction. It means you feel safe, approachable, and different from other men. But if your conversations go nowhere, it’s not enough to just “talk.” You need to move things forward and create desire. Otherwise, you’ll stay stuck in casual small talk instead of sparking real interest. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

If women keep starting conversations with you, that’s a huge sign of attraction.

It means you feel safe, approachable, and different from other men. But if your conversations go nowhere, it’s not enough to just “talk.” You need to move things forward and create desire.

Otherwise, you’ll stay stuck in casual small talk instead of sparking real interest.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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6 Dates in 2 months đź™‚

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client