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About Jessica J...

A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of β€œAmerica’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

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If you've ever leaned in, shared a kiss that seemed great, walked away thinking you were completely in...

And then got hit with total radio silence...

This video explains the brutal female perspective behind what really happened 🫣

Most men assume that if a woman kisses you back, it's undeniable proof that she's attracted to you and wants to see you again.

It isn't! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

If you wanna understand why we kissed you... and then ghosted, why a physical move can never replace emotional tension, and how to tell the difference between a woman passively going along with physical intimacy versus actively desiring you

Watch this breakdown of why she kissed you...and then ghosted, which covers the psychology men miss most! 😳

Stop treating a kiss like a shortcut to attraction and learn how to create mutual desire from the very first conversation.

Discover how to spark intense chemistry through the way you speak:
πŸ”— https://speaktosparkarousal.com

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❀️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

If you've ever leaned in, shared a kiss that seemed great, walked away thinking you were completely in...

And then got hit with total radio silence...

This video explains the brutal female perspective behind what really happened 🫣

Most men assume that if a woman kisses you back, it's undeniable proof that she's attracted to you and wants to see you again.

It isn't! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

If you wanna understand why we kissed you... and then ghosted, why a physical move can never replace emotional tension, and how to tell the difference between a woman passively going along with physical intimacy versus actively desiring you

Watch this breakdown of why she kissed you...and then ghosted, which covers the psychology men miss most! 😳

Stop treating a kiss like a shortcut to attraction and learn how to create mutual desire from the very first conversation.

Discover how to spark intense chemistry through the way you speak:
πŸ”— https://speaktosparkarousal.com

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❀️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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Why She Kissed You...And Then Ghosted (It’s Not What You Think) πŸ’‹πŸ‘»

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! 
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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What is the SURPRISING reason we lose attraction after the 3rd date? 😩πŸ”₯ 

If you've ever taken a woman out multiple times, felt incredible rapport, had amazing conversations, and thought things were going perfectly, only for her to drop the dreaded line: 

πŸ—£οΈ "You're such a great guy, but I'm just not feeling a romantic connection," this breakdown reveals exactly what went wrong 😭

Most men assume that if a woman agrees to keep seeing them, attraction is automatically building.

Well it isn't! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

Here is the brutal reality: there is a massive difference between a woman enjoying your company and a woman actually wanting you. 

And Date 1 has a specific goal just like Date 2 has another...

Which leads us to eactly WHY we usually say buh-bye by Date 3! ✌🏼

If you want to understand the SURPRISING reason we lose attraction after the 3rd date, why great conversations do not equal romantic chemistry, and how to stop landing in the friend zone...

This video breaks down the evolutionary psychology of exactly why this happens.

Learn how to spark intense romantic chemistry through the way you speak:
πŸ”— https://speaktosparkarousal.com

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❀️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

What is the SURPRISING reason we lose attraction after the 3rd date? 😩πŸ”₯

If you've ever taken a woman out multiple times, felt incredible rapport, had amazing conversations, and thought things were going perfectly, only for her to drop the dreaded line:

πŸ—£οΈ "You're such a great guy, but I'm just not feeling a romantic connection," this breakdown reveals exactly what went wrong 😭

Most men assume that if a woman agrees to keep seeing them, attraction is automatically building.

Well it isn't! πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

Here is the brutal reality: there is a massive difference between a woman enjoying your company and a woman actually wanting you.

And Date 1 has a specific goal just like Date 2 has another...

Which leads us to eactly WHY we usually say buh-bye by Date 3! ✌🏼

If you want to understand the SURPRISING reason we lose attraction after the 3rd date, why great conversations do not equal romantic chemistry, and how to stop landing in the friend zone...

This video breaks down the evolutionary psychology of exactly why this happens.

Learn how to spark intense romantic chemistry through the way you speak:
πŸ”— https://speaktosparkarousal.com

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❀️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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The SURPRISING Reason We Women Lose Attraction After The 3rd Date (Or Sooner) 😩πŸ”₯

Do Jessica's Courses Really Work?

6 Dates in 2 months πŸ™‚

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client