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A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of “America’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Ever been told “you look good for your age”? 😒 Let’s talk about why that’s a total backhanded compliment and the subtle ageism women face. Instead, just say, “You look great!” Period. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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Ever been told “you look good for your age”? 😒 Let’s talk about why that’s a total backhanded compliment and the subtle ageism women face. Instead, just say, “You look great!” Period.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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Why Women Don't Want to Hear You Look Good for Your Age

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= None of the dating advice will help you connect with women if...you still see women as a threat. The fix? Practice being personal and relevant. Speak from what you feel right now. That’s the skill that actually connects. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

None of the dating advice will help you connect with women if...you still see women as a threat. The fix? Practice being personal and relevant. Speak from what you feel right now. That’s the skill that actually connects.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

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The COLD HARD TRUTH of Why Dating Advice Won’t Work for YOU (No Matter How Hard You Try)

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Still Chasing Her Like She’s the Prize? Here’s Why That’s the Problem. Ever feel like you're the one doing all the chasing, proving, and selling... while she sits back like she’s the prize? Yeah — that’s because you’re showing up like an Uber, not a Lamborghini. In this video, I’m breaking down exactly how to shift that vibe and start getting treated like the luxury man you actually are — rare, exclusive, and worth earning. I’ll walk you through 4 mindset flips that stop the over-giving, over-sharing, and over-investing… so you can become the guy women respect and pursue. 💥 It’s not about money. Not about looks. It’s about energy. Act like a prize — get chosen like one. 👉 Want women chasing you (without the proving and performing)? Book your free call now: https://www.jessicajdating.com/book 🔥 Subscribe + tap the bell so you stop being the Uber and start being the upgrade. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Still Chasing Her Like She’s the Prize? Here’s Why That’s the Problem.

Ever feel like you're the one doing all the chasing, proving, and selling... while she sits back like she’s the prize?

Yeah — that’s because you’re showing up like an Uber, not a Lamborghini.

In this video, I’m breaking down exactly how to shift that vibe and start getting treated like the luxury man you actually are — rare, exclusive, and worth earning.
I’ll walk you through 4 mindset flips that stop the over-giving, over-sharing, and over-investing… so you can become the guy women respect and pursue.

💥 It’s not about money. Not about looks. It’s about energy.
Act like a prize — get chosen like one.

👉 Want women chasing you (without the proving and performing)?
Book your free call now: https://www.jessicajdating.com/book

🔥 Subscribe + tap the bell so you stop being the Uber and start being the upgrade.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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4 ways to make her see you as a LUXURY and not as an OPTION

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Still Think Women Want Money, Muscles, or a Mask? Think Again. Think the only way to attract women is to make more money, hit the gym harder, or fake being someone you’re not? You’re not alone — but you’re also way off. In this video, I’m breaking down why so many guys still struggle with women even after they “level up” their life. It’s not about the resume — it’s about how we feel when we’re around you. Most men try to impress with travel stories, job titles, or fun facts… but here’s the thing: women don’t connect with bullet points. We connect with real, raw, you — when you're actually present. I’ll show you how to ditch the stiff, frozen chicken nugget version of yourself and show up warm, real, and magnetic — the way women are wired to respond to. 👉 Curious how attractive you actually come across? Take the free quiz now: https://www.jessicajdating.com/quiz 🔥 Subscribe + hit the bell so you don’t miss what really works with real women. - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Still Think Women Want Money, Muscles, or a Mask? Think Again.

Think the only way to attract women is to make more money, hit the gym harder, or fake being someone you’re not?
You’re not alone — but you’re also way off.

In this video, I’m breaking down why so many guys still struggle with women even after they “level up” their life.
It’s not about the resume — it’s about how we feel when we’re around you.

Most men try to impress with travel stories, job titles, or fun facts… but here’s the thing: women don’t connect with bullet points. We connect with real, raw, you — when you're actually present.

I’ll show you how to ditch the stiff, frozen chicken nugget version of yourself and show up warm, real, and magnetic — the way women are wired to respond to.

👉 Curious how attractive you actually come across?
Take the free quiz now: https://www.jessicajdating.com/quiz

🔥 Subscribe + hit the bell so you don’t miss what really works with real women.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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Don't Change a SINGLE THING About Yourself For Women! (But DO Change THIS TO Get THEM Chasing YOU)

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Do Jessica's Courses Really Work?

6 Dates in 2 months 🙂

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client