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A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of “America’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Think you know when a younger woman is flirting with you? Think again. A lot of older men completely miss the signs because younger women are often far more subtle than you expect. They aren't going to just walk up and state their intentions bluntly. Instead, they create opportunities for interaction and conversation. And one of the absolute biggest ways they do this? They ask you to teach them something. When she asks for your advice, your help, or an explanation on a topic you know well, you might think she's just being curious. But in part two of this video, I'm revealing the hidden psychology behind this exact behavior—and why the information she's asking for is just a vehicle for something else entirely. If you've ever walked away from a conversation wondering if she was just being nice or if there was something more there, this video is for you. Watch the full video to find out what's actually happening during these conversations, and how to spot the exact signals that prove she likes the person giving the answer. Tired of missing the signs and letting great conversations slip away? If you want to understand exactly what women are responding to emotionally and learn how to move interactions forward with total confidence, let's work together. Book a coaching consult call with me here: 🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/book - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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Think you know when a younger woman is flirting with you? Think again.

A lot of older men completely miss the signs because younger women are often far more subtle than you expect. They aren't going to just walk up and state their intentions bluntly. Instead, they create opportunities for interaction and conversation.

And one of the absolute biggest ways they do this? They ask you to teach them something.

When she asks for your advice, your help, or an explanation on a topic you know well, you might think she's just being curious. But in part two of this video, I'm revealing the hidden psychology behind this exact behavior—and why the information she's asking for is just a vehicle for something else entirely.

If you've ever walked away from a conversation wondering if she was just being nice or if there was something more there, this video is for you.

Watch the full video to find out what's actually happening during these conversations, and how to spot the exact signals that prove she likes the person giving the answer.

Tired of missing the signs and letting great conversations slip away?

If you want to understand exactly what women are responding to emotionally and learn how to move interactions forward with total confidence, let's work together.

Book a coaching consult call with me here:
🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/book

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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Younger Women Do THIS When Hitting On Older Men, PART II 😱🙊🫣

D🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Think women don't want a good guy anymore? Think again. The truth is, women are fighting to find a man who genuinely wants to love and cherish them. The problem isn't what you want, it's how you communicate it. Most men end up small talking their way into the background instead of standing out. If you want to know exactly how you're coming across to the women you want, take my free quiz right now: 🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/quiz #datingadviceformen #howtotalktowomen #jessicajdating #goodguys #datingtips #relationshiptips ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

D🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Think women don't want a good guy anymore?

Think again.

The truth is, women are fighting to find a man who genuinely wants to love and cherish them.

The problem isn't what you want, it's how you communicate it.

Most men end up small talking their way into the background instead of standing out.

If you want to know exactly how you're coming across to the women you want, take my free quiz right now:
🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/quiz

#datingadviceformen #howtotalktowomen #jessicajdating #goodguys #datingtips #relationshiptips
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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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💥 women are WAITING for you to do this (but you never do) #datingadvice #dating

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Ever had a woman start off super hot for you, then suddenly go ice-cold out of nowhere? 😭🥶 It's easy to assume she's just not interested, but the reality is much more complicated! When women develop feelings, attraction can actually feel emotionally dangerous...causing us to react in CONTRADICTING ways. In this video, you'll learn the psychology behind why women give mixed signals when they like you. More importantly...you'll discover the number one reason these interactions fall apart, how to tell the difference between genuine disinterest and hidden attraction, and how to build conversations that survive these emotional fluctuations. Ready to stop decoding mixed signals and start building unstoppable chemistry? Book a coaching consult with me here! 🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/book - Jessica J Dating Coach ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Ever had a woman start off super hot for you, then suddenly go ice-cold out of nowhere? 😭🥶

It's easy to assume she's just not interested, but the reality is much more complicated!

When women develop feelings, attraction can actually feel emotionally dangerous...causing us to react in CONTRADICTING ways.

In this video, you'll learn the psychology behind why women give mixed signals when they like you.

More importantly...you'll discover the number one reason these interactions fall apart, how to tell the difference between genuine disinterest and hidden attraction, and how to build conversations that survive these emotional fluctuations.

Ready to stop decoding mixed signals and start building unstoppable chemistry?

Book a coaching consult with me here!
🔗 https://jessicajdating.com/book

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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Hypocritical Things Women Do When We Like You 🤥🤪

D🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! ========================================= 🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz ========================================= 🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com ========================================= Ever feel like you can strike up a conversation easily, but it never leads anywhere? Maybe you have great energy and zero issues talking, yet you aren't having the meaningful conversations or building the connections you actually want with women. If this sounds like you, you are likely falling into one of three common conversational traps. The 3 Big Mistakes You're Making: 1️⃣ Over-focusing on her: You are asking plenty of questions, but it starts to feel like an interrogation. Putting her on the spot ruins the natural flow. 2️⃣ Over-focusing on yourself: You are comfortable sharing and making people laugh, but you are monologuing instead of dialoguing. Nobody wants to feel like an audience member. 3️⃣ Not talking about right here right now: If you aren't locked into the moment, she won't feel a real connection with you. Once the interaction ends, you're easily forgotten. Ready to Fix Your Conversations? Find out exactly where you're dropping the ball and how to turn things around. Take the quiz now: 🔗 https://JessicaJdating.com/quiz #datingadviceformen #communication #socialskills #conversationskills #introvert #DatingAdvice #Confidence #HowToTalkToWomen #RelationshipGoals #DatingTips For Men ========================================= ✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood ✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028 ✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share #datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

D🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Ever feel like you can strike up a conversation easily, but it never leads anywhere?

Maybe you have great energy and zero issues talking, yet you aren't having the meaningful conversations or building the connections you actually want with women.

If this sounds like you, you are likely falling into one of three common conversational traps.

The 3 Big Mistakes You're Making:
1️⃣ Over-focusing on her: You are asking plenty of questions, but it starts to feel like an interrogation. Putting her on the spot ruins the natural flow.
2️⃣ Over-focusing on yourself: You are comfortable sharing and making people laugh, but you are monologuing instead of dialoguing. Nobody wants to feel like an audience member.
3️⃣ Not talking about right here right now: If you aren't locked into the moment, she won't feel a real connection with you. Once the interaction ends, you're easily forgotten.

Ready to Fix Your Conversations?
Find out exactly where you're dropping the ball and how to turn things around.

Take the quiz now:
🔗 https://JessicaJdating.com/quiz

#datingadviceformen #communication #socialskills #conversationskills #introvert
#DatingAdvice #Confidence #HowToTalkToWomen #RelationshipGoals #DatingTips For Men
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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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💥 3 reasons “good talkers” aren’t always good w/ WOMEN 🙊 (is this YOU?) #datingadvice #dating

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6 Dates in 2 months 🙂

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client