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About Jessica J...

A born and bred Jersey girl, Jessica J first entered the realm of sex and relationships when she first sought to become a Marriage and Family Therapist in Hollywood, CA.

While handling all things marriage and parenting-related at work, Jessica got her stress relief at night by blogging about her single-girl sex life in LA.

Soon enough, she found herself transitioning from the family room to the bedroom, as she eventually began writing sex advice for the masses at an instructional porn company under the guise of a blonde, bombshell porn star (who shall not be named).

While talking about family matters and writing about sex seemed to operate in two opposite realms, Jessica eventually made her way back to personal assistance and guidance and found her true calling as a personal dating coach for men.

She’s since been featured as one of “America’s Most Desirable Daters” on Nightline after having the most messaged online dating profile in Los Angeles and was the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio Show, The Couch, where she assisted men, women, and couples in problematic areas within their sex and dating lives.

Her main focus now is assisting men in all things dating, sex and self related with Solution-Focused Therapy principles, offering personal direction to men seeking to understand better women, themselves, and how to get exactly what they want with both.

Award-winning YouTube Channel

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! 
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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Valentine’s Day is coming up, so my head coach, Christina and I are going live to help you level up your dating life and actually create real connection with women 🥳

On this live stream we’ll cover:
• How to create attraction during conversations
• Fixing common dating mistakes that kill momentum
• Live Q&A so you can get your questions answered once and for all
• Getting to know Coach Christina and how she helps our clients get and keep the women they want!

If you’re ready to stop guessing and get real help improving your dating life…

Book a coaching call here: 
👉🏼 https://jessicajdating.com/book

So join in with your questions and let's get you who and what you want once and for all! 🥂
- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

Valentine’s Day is coming up, so my head coach, Christina and I are going live to help you level up your dating life and actually create real connection with women 🥳

On this live stream we’ll cover:
• How to create attraction during conversations
• Fixing common dating mistakes that kill momentum
• Live Q&A so you can get your questions answered once and for all
• Getting to know Coach Christina and how she helps our clients get and keep the women they want!

If you’re ready to stop guessing and get real help improving your dating life…

Book a coaching call here:
👉🏼 https://jessicajdating.com/book

So join in with your questions and let's get you who and what you want once and for all! 🥂
- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE Q&A w/ Jessica J & Coach Christina ❤️🥂

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! 
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
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🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
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If you feel like you're doing all the right things but women STILL aren't responding—or worse, the more effort you put in, the faster it falls apart—you’re about to understand exactly why.

Because the harder you try, the worse it gets. Not because you're broken. But because you’re leading with the wrong energy… and women can feel it instantly.

In this video, I’m breaking down the hidden behavior that kills attraction even when everything seems to be going well—and what to do instead so women actually start chasing you without you trying so hard.

This is the moment it all starts to click.

Stick around ‘til the end because it'a Cyber Monday which means that opens the doors to my full 12-week training are closing soon—designed to help you build confidence, lead with grounded energy, and connect with women in a way that makes them feel magnetically drawn to you.

👇 Take the free quiz to uncover your dating blind spots:
https://jessicajdating.com/quiz

Subscribe & hit the bell if you’re done with overthinking and ready to become the man women can’t stop thinking about.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

If you feel like you're doing all the right things but women STILL aren't responding—or worse, the more effort you put in, the faster it falls apart—you’re about to understand exactly why.

Because the harder you try, the worse it gets. Not because you're broken. But because you’re leading with the wrong energy… and women can feel it instantly.

In this video, I’m breaking down the hidden behavior that kills attraction even when everything seems to be going well—and what to do instead so women actually start chasing you without you trying so hard.

This is the moment it all starts to click.

Stick around ‘til the end because it'a Cyber Monday which means that opens the doors to my full 12-week training are closing soon—designed to help you build confidence, lead with grounded energy, and connect with women in a way that makes them feel magnetically drawn to you.

👇 Take the free quiz to uncover your dating blind spots:
https://jessicajdating.com/quiz

Subscribe & hit the bell if you’re done with overthinking and ready to become the man women can’t stop thinking about.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

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✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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When You Stop Trying (The WRONG Thing), Women Start CHASING You

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book ! 
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🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

If women talk to you, flirt a little, seem into it… but later act cold or “just friendly”—this video is for you.

I’m breaking down the exact moment she decides if she wants you or not. It happens fast. Most guys miss it. And it’s not about the words you say—it’s how your body shows up in the moment.

If you’re sick of feeling like “the fun guy she vibes with but doesn’t want,” you need to understand this shift.

Watch ‘til the end because I’m also opening something brand new that fixes this for good—so you can actually lead attraction with confidence and clarity.

👇 Take the free quiz to find your dating blind spots:
https://jessicajdating.com/quiz

Subscribe + hit the bell if you want to be the man she can’t stop thinking about.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

========================================= 

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

🎯 Book Your FREE Strategy Session To See How We Can Get You Women You Want: https://jessicajdating.com/book !
=========================================
🎯 Take my FREE quiz here to see if YOU are attractive to the women you WANT! https://jessicajdating.com/quiz
=========================================
🎯 Discover the secret to creating instant connections and chemistry within minutes of meeting women: https://speaktosparkarousal.com
=========================================

If women talk to you, flirt a little, seem into it… but later act cold or “just friendly”—this video is for you.

I’m breaking down the exact moment she decides if she wants you or not. It happens fast. Most guys miss it. And it’s not about the words you say—it’s how your body shows up in the moment.

If you’re sick of feeling like “the fun guy she vibes with but doesn’t want,” you need to understand this shift.

Watch ‘til the end because I’m also opening something brand new that fixes this for good—so you can actually lead attraction with confidence and clarity.

👇 Take the free quiz to find your dating blind spots:
https://jessicajdating.com/quiz

Subscribe + hit the bell if you want to be the man she can’t stop thinking about.

- Jessica J Dating Coach

=========================================

✴️ Instagram: JessicaHollywood
✴️ Tips & Donations: https://paypal.me/jla90028
✴️ My Amazon Wish List ❤️: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/XDGIGPASBNSU?ref_=wl_share

#datingadvice #jessicajdating #attractwomen

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The Exact Moment Women Decide If They Want You Or Not ❌👀✅

Do Jessica's Courses Really Work?

6 Dates in 2 months 🙂

Jessica! Ok, I have at LEAST tripled my dating results in the past two months!! I went from being hopelessly undateable to being able to work a room completely! It’s been the best couple of months of my life and I owe it all to you. If you’re ever in North Dakota, beers on me!

I just wanted to say thanks, Jess. You explained this stuff in a way no one’s ever been able to to me and it’s changed my life.  Let me know if there’s ever anything I can do for you!

 - DEREK

Holy Cow!

Hey, I just wanted to touch base with you on my dating profile. So, I put my profile up last week (included 2 pics) and it has been out of control. My phone hasn't stopped going off since. I've match with like 14 girls and have be liked by like 30. Have 2 dates this weekend and am talking to 6 other girls as well. I wanted to thank you because it was your homework that I sucked at doing that I sucked at doing that has been the big draw. They all laugh and use it as a starter when they reach out to me (Bumble). Thanks again.

 - Dating coach client

I'm the happiest I've ever been.

Dude, PRS + HAY. I've mentioned it on your channel but you have no idea what a game changer this was. Without this I would have continued to have cringe experiences and not realize why it was driving me nuts, so I'm truly grateful to have found you. I'm the happiest I've ever been. And the girls I'm with seem even more so!

 - Dating coach client